Mary Raphael

Mary Raphael

(November 27, 1934 to January 29, 2026)

It is with great sadness that Liz and Monique announce the passing of their dear friend Mary.

Fiercely independent, Mary represented a life well lived. Born in Richmond, England, she spent her early adult years there before immigrating to Canada in 1965. She made the journey across the Atlantic on her own, eventually settling in Vancouver, where she built a long and successful career at UBC as secretary to the Registrar. She liked to joke that when she retired, they needed two people to replace her!

Mary’s interests were wide-ranging. She loved to travel, and was a devoted reader with an extensive book collection. As a lifelong learner, she enjoyed taking self-improvement courses. Her creativity found expression in many forms—from her work as a master seamstress to her piano playing and her enthusiasm for Scottish country dancing. Through these passions she formed many lasting friendships, especially with Elspeth, Margaret, Diane, and Dierdre.

When independent living became more challenging, Liz and Monique supported Mary in helping her to move from her beloved Kitsilano apartment to Amica Arbutus and later to South Granville Park Lodge. These transitions brought new energy and companionship into her life, and she embraced the activities and friendships she found in each community.

Mary had a generous spirit and donated to many charities, some for decades. In keeping with her wishes there will be no formal service. Those who wish to honour her memory are kindly invited to donate to a charity of their choice.
Mary is survived by her niece Yasmin, and her nephew Michael, both of whom live in England.

Liz and Monique would like to extend a heartfelt thanks to the staff at both Amica Arbutus and South Granville Lodge for the care, kindness, and dignity they gave to Mary while in their care.