Shu Lan Hiong Quay

December 3, 2022

QUAY, Lan

May 18, 1936 − December 3, 2022

With heavy hearts, we announce the peaceful passing of Lan Quay on the afternoon of December 3rd, 2022, at the age of 86. She was surrounded by her loved ones.

Shu Lan Hiong was born on May 18th, 1936, in Kuala Belait, Brunei, and immigrated to Canada with her family on April 5th, 1970. She was predeceased by her daughter Rofina in 1995. She is survived by her husband of 61 years, Paddy; son Anthony; daughter Folina (Dean); granddaughters Lindsey (Martin) and Lesley (Quinten); and relatives and friends.

Lan was a kind, generous, and selfless individual who always put everyone else before her own needs. She will be remembered as a loving, dedicated, exceptional wife, mother, grandmother, aunt, and friend to many.

She will be greatly missed by her family and anyone that was fortunate and blessed to have met and been a part of her life. We take comfort during this difficult time, knowing she is at peace and is now reunited with her beloved daughter Rofina.

Forever in our hearts until we meet again.

Messages of Condolence

Our deepest sympathies and condolences in the loss of your beloved wife, mother and grandmother. May you be in peace knowing your love one is safe with Our Lord.

- Augustine and Ida Fong

Dear Uncle Paddy, Anthony and Folina, My sister Ida just informed me of the passing away of your beloved Wife and Mother. I have known Aunty Ah Hiong ,as I used to call her, for many years. She always had such a beautiful smile when I saw her. She was always so generous and kind hearted . Everyone who knows her will miss her dearly. My sincere condolences to you , Uncle Paddy , Anthony and Folina, in the loss of your beloved Wife and Mother . She is in Heaven with the Lord now. God blessed you all.

- Ping Tan

Our deepest condolences. Mrs. Quay was such a special lady. Sending your family love during this difficult time.

- Carmen & Ken Tsang

Dearest Uncle Paddy, Folina ,and Anthony, Deepest Sympathies on the passing of Aunty Ah Hiong. I remember her kindness & sweetness whenever we were able to see each other. Take comfort that she is always with you in your hearts. Take good care.

- Linda Tan

Known Aunty Paddy in Labuan in early 60s. My heartfelt condolences to Uncle Paddy and family. May Aunty soul rest internal peace. Ah Ping

- Ping Yin Sheu

Dear Paddy, Folina & Dean and Tony...please accept our heartfelt sympathy on the loss of Lan. I was just informed of your loss. She was a beautiful, kind loving person and I know she will be greatly missed. I take comfort in knowing she was reunited with Rofina. Take care....much love.❤️ Kathy and Tim McKinley

- Katherine Mckinley

Wow, I've never expected to come across a name that I knew so long ago. Sorry for your loss. Your Mom and Wife was kind to me. I liked her cooking and loved her kindness. Sorry about Rofina I had no idea that she was gone as well so long ago.

- Maggie

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