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Alfred "Fred" Benary

October 2, 2015

Alfred "Fred" Benary

BENARY, Alfred
February 7, 1960 – October 2, 2015

It is with immense sadness that we announce the passing of Alfred "Fred" Benary on October 2, 2015, after a tragic motor vehicle collision.

He is remembered by his partner of 16 years, Adele Dirks; daughters, Deanna Dirks and Ashleigh Dirks; sister, Edel Benary; brothers, Klaus (Brandy) Benary and Robert (Maria) Benary; nieces and nephews; great-nieces and nephews; extended family overseas; friends and co-workers. Fred was predeceased by his parents, Lotte and Hans Benary.

A Celebration of Fred's Life will be held in the Water Valley Community Hall on Sunday, October 25, 2015 at 2:00 pm. Special thanks goes to Dr. Phillipe Couillard and the staff at the Foothills Hospital Trauma and Palliative Care ICUs. 

In lieu of flowers, donations in Fred’s memory may be made to:

MADD Calgary, 6528 - 11 Street NE, Calgary, AB, T2E 7J4. (maddchapters.ca/calgary/giving)


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Messages of Condolence


We are so very sorry. Fred will always be in our memories. Our love and prayers for you all. One day at a time. Love Uncle Dale and Aunt Barb ~ Barbara and Dale Dirks


Adele; We are both so sad to have heard about Fred..such a shock..our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. Lots of hugs!! ~ Maureen & Ed Houbrechts


DEL AND GIRLS..NOTHING WE CAN SAY OR DO WILL FILL THE HOLES IN YOUR HEARTS FROM THE LOSS OF FRED. LOVE TO ALL ~ UNCLE JIM AND AUNT KATHRYN DIRKS


Our thoughts go out to you and your family. I hope you have some comfort in knowing we are thinking of you in this difficult time. Big hugs to you Adele and your family Kristina ~ Kristina Banks


I was shocked when Adele informed me of this incident and I knew it was't good to be informed that you had a family crises and had to have your client appointments deferred. I am so very sorry for your loss. Be well. ~ Rick Eckstein


Adele & girls, our thought go out to you at this hard time. Shannon & Ian Tompkins ~ Shannon Tompkins


Sorry for your loss. ~ Stephanie Crichton


Our prayers and thoughts to your family. Life is so very precious. ~ Ken and Connie Johnson


We were so sorry to hear of Fred's tragic accident. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. ~ Mike and Helen Mortl


Adele, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the girls. ~ Angie Yzerman


This message goes out to Robert. I went to King George with both you and Fred. I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your brother. Although I have clearer memories of you because we were in the same grade, I remember Fred as an incredibly gentle soul who was unfailingly kind to everyone. My sincere condolences in this difficult time. ~ John Hamilton